Christian girls dating bad boys
And for teenage girls eager to fall in love, that eagerness can get the best of them.
They may chase the boys they like instead of waiting for the right boys to chase them – and then wonder why their relationships are empty, short, and shallow. ) it may frustrate you to see the new breed of aggressive females being cultivated by our society.
So excited to finally meet a man who pursued me, I jumped at the chance to enter into a relationship with him.
But if this is the foundation of a relationship, commitment is often trumped by chemistry and loyalty is often replaced with lust.
Some of the popular Christian books were talking about not dating at all, and just being friends, until God had made it clear that the guy she liked was the right one for her.
However, in trying to reduce their lack into a single cause – women like assholes, not nice guys – they end up missing the forest for the trees.
It ends up being a case of the illusion of validity, assuming that they’ve correctly understood series.
Interacting with the opposite sex became this pressure-filled, awkward interaction that left me feeling confused, impatient and lacking control. Dating in wider society is often portrayed as a feel-good experience.
I bought into the theory that dating was wrong and that the only way to find God’s one and only match for my life would be to wait for Him. If you feel “right” together, if you’re having fun, if there’s passion and pleasure, then it must be a good relationship.